Does awareness help?
I believe it doesn’t.
On the contrary, and it makes things heavier.
Take one problem and place it in a family. How the 20s will think about it, 40s, 80s…? The 80s will wait from the 40s to guide properly the 20s.
The 40s will want the 20s to perform without guidelines and direct help because they should face the problems of life claiming that “I also did it”.
The 20s will expect understanding and support. The 40s will have to protect the 80s but the 80s will expect from both 20s and 40s.
Did you understand anything? Is crazier than these sentences. Is so complicated.
Everybody has advices, everybody is right. Yes
Everybody is right. Yes!
Because everybody speaks out of their own hearts and needs.
Am I in danger now to write this based on what I feel about this subject? Yes.
The correct answer needs to be one that is suitable for each individual, as long as it doesn’t hurt and create problems to the other. Really? Again, is complicated. My correct answer hurts you and yours hurts mine. So?
Is there any end in this equation?
Yes. Only love.
Pure love. The pure love. Families of today because we don’t know and we can’t not leave today still comparing and wandering how 123 years ago they did it… 1000 years ago…the families of today NEEDS desperately to be formed based of love!
If we follow a path embracing respect and good feelings for all the people around us, for the nature and for all the livings, bulling, hate and so many wrong feelings and actions will be just a few, they will gradually fade away, example will become a lesson for everybody. We will deal with education in the family guided by loving family members, that will teach the youth by example, not by talking. Nobody can be perfect, but when you show respect and care, you don’t have to be perfect. They will give birth to good manners, good perspectives, good principles, good morals. When you decide to have a family, to have offspring’s, what can you give best to them? Your love. But you can’t give your love to you child if you don’t show it widely. The offspring will have to see it, feel it, understand it. Is the love between the family members, the love for the nature, for the animals, for the goods. I’ve read in different articles that is believed by some that attachment and love for goods is not healthy spirituality. I believe it is. I believe that any form of love to anything is good. Attachment is a natural reaction of our mind and is my mistake if I’m wrong but I still believe it to be good, and as I said, I don’t have to be right or perfect, I just try to realize for myself and share what is love and how we can find it. I know, is what I said in the beginning, what I believe maybe is wrong because I speak out of what I feel. But can anyone prove who is right? Not even God doesn’t show it. Or does?
Once upon a time I had a bunny. Is the last toy I remember from one of the Christmas I lived when my grandma Gabriela was still alive. That bunny became like a “best friend” after my grandma died. It was white, she was a girl. Wearing a red dress, she was so soft, with pink cheeks, long ears. She also had an apron, white with red dots. I wish I still had it. I wish I could hug it. I don’t hate the memory of it, I don’t hate not even that I’ve lost it, however it was stolen from me. I just miss it, and this feeling makes me believe it was not wrong to be attached to my bunny. Because she comforted me so much for so many years, my goodness. Just a toy. Wonderful. I think Santa Claus back then couldn’t bring better 🙂
I love you my bunny, wherever you are.
I wish I could close my eyes and touch all these things, go there and see them, just feel again these feelings, this love for these toys, games, people! I would never live so much happiness as a child without being attached to all this. So, all this makes me say that love in all kind of forms and to all kind of form is healthy, beautiful and needed!
Despite all this, I’m not better than my family members, not yet. But I will. And not the awareness saved me but the memories of my past and the love and attachment I mentioned for all I had. For them I want to be better, for them I want the new people of the planet to feel the love, the protection and the example. To live at the minimum my happiness and to reach at the minimum my own dreams. Because we are here to make it better, not worse.
My child has to live better the me, and is my fight for this. I’m my own responsibility and only mine. I’m here to become more, more we become when we grow. To grow it takes generations. We are where we are through out of time and evolution. My evolution is part of the creation and not stagnation or distraction. I need space, time I can’t get. I need pace. I’m small and simple, the world is without measurements, I need pace and I need my own nest. I need to be calm and I need to give love.
What do you need?
Do you give love?